Busy month every year!

Freshman year Tessie got invited by Owen to the Prom! she was excited about it. she got invited the same day when we got back from the dress shopping, we went to shoes shopping next day, and the coming weekend she got her nails done. she looks pretty and elegant and confident that day! that was a special day for her! Jet went with Charlie and Simion group, he didn't invite any girl, but he should have some fun too! 

May is always the busiest season for me, Mother's Day, birthdays, southtown mall concert( Julian's first performance), spring concerts...  I am so glad a have a daughter and she is thoughtful, she picked 3 presents and she surprised me with her 2 presents, and she let Jet pick one of the presents for me and he paid her back. I can see what's my future like. I planted Jet's present--flower seeds for me for my birthday from last year.

 

what happen in April

April is the season of Easter; Julian and his friends and cousin sure had a lot of fun together! Jet and his friends went to see the Minecraft movie. Tess went to Ella's birthday party and I drove 1 hour to orgden to do the dress shopping for her Prom.

We got 5 baby chicks but ended up 2 died.

想在这里说一下以后弟弟和他们的这个好朋友的关系要结束了。 当然他目前还不知道。 他的好朋友强尼是唯一一个老来得子的孩子所以有点宠， 养成了一些不太好的习惯，但是在我们的影响下有改善， 但是有阵子我还是刻意和他们保持着距离，起因是一起约去水上公园玩的那次，他遇见了在暑假班上的朋友，完全丢弃了弟弟，弟弟拼命想要他一起但是他就是舍弃他，弄得弟弟很伤心，后来有点不欢而散。还有这个小孩平时有点自我，让弟弟听他的，被我知道了我让弟弟有主见不要听，两人在一起玩经常会有争吵。他妈妈pond也是找各种理由不和弟弟playdate来我家等等，我有一次邀请他们和婷婷来我家提了我的意见 为什么找各种牵强的理由不一起玩了等等。后来过了一段冷静期，我们也是和他家保持了一点距离，不知道是她最后发现他儿子没有朋友玩了还是什么原因，有阵子有好了。说实话Johnny有很多坏毛病，比如说其他孩子不停他的他会说“I don't like you!"，"you are not my friend!", 被我听到了我就和他妈提意见，后面改掉了。他会拉帮结派几个孩子孤立一个孩子不带他玩， 他会玩人与狗的游戏，他是人，另外孩子们是狗，他扔一个玩具，让其他孩子用嘴巴刁回来给他，被我看见两次玩这个游戏，我说应该轮流，你也当回狗，他说他不喜欢当狗。有一次在后院的阳台上他又扔下去一个东西让Julian和Mac抢着叼回来给他，那个慢了没有先给他的孩子就哭了。我看不下去了，说轮流才公平，你也当一回狗吧， 他只好当了一回狗，Mac扔出去，他要捡回来给Mac的时候，Mac在等Julian，不接受Johnny的，他就哭了，我最后用糖果搞定了，大家都开心。这些事情我一开始都忍者没有说，后来在去参加Ezeree生日派对的时候Johnny本该和Julian好好玩的，可是他又开始调戏Julian，只要Julian一靠近他他就跑掉，和另外一个女生玩，Julian在后面一直追，累的气喘吁吁，还是全程在追，我最后和弟弟说不要去追他了，自己去玩吧，果然，看不追他了就问Julian去哪里了。我说你要和他玩自己去找他吧。我就和Pond提意见了，她也不组织她儿子，还说我从来没有叫Johnny abandon Julian，你儿子这样是我们在abandon你？ 还说他儿子太开心了才这样的，一味的宠溺自己的孩子，最后派对还没结束就生气的走了。

只能说孺子不可教也，这样的话我后来又找机会，我知道是最后一次讲话的机会我把她儿子所有的毛病都说了一遍，让她醒一醒！婷婷背后说她儿子bully她女儿，经常孤立cici让别人都不和她玩，她摔断了腿，还拿掉了她的鞋，学她当小跛子。还很凶的指着Katie小妹妹告诉她不许过来！婷婷来和我吐槽的时候Pond没有制止自己的儿子而是笑着的。。。这样的朋友本来是人挺好的 虽然有些虚客气但是人还不错，可是因为他儿子的关系而毁了一段友谊也是挺可惜的。我后悔的是不应该说出她儿子的所有毛病，应该继续和她假惺惺保持一定的距离。但是这样的虚假友情我真的需要吗？我用我的方式保护着弟弟，希望他能交到一起快乐成长积极上进的孩子，弟弟能从别的孩子身上学到更多优点。

纪念这段要结束的友情，以后应该不会再有两个好朋友在一起的照片了。

 

Spring break

This year's spring break, we had a trade show in San Deigo, so we planned the trip with college visit and trade show. First, we went to Poly Tech, stopped by Pismo Beach, we visited it 10 years ago, Next Stop Universal Studio, visited Cal Tech, last stop San Deigo, 3 of us went to La Jolla Beach while Jet study for the SAT, Mason doing trade show. This probably would be our last road trip before Jet goes to the college. Julian enjoyed it, he told me he is waiting for next spring break this morning! I didn't get a picture of UCSD because we went to the campus at night on a rainy day.

Busy travelling one week and the following week was soccer training and robotic competition and piano federation, we had busy spring break!

Right after the spring break, I finally cut Didi's hair that he requested few times during the trip, He wanted a Mohak! 

We celebrated Mason's birthday, Tess pick the picture from the internet, and I made the cake, it looks just like him!

Julian finished indoor dimple dell soccer, starts his outdoor lone peak soccer